The next time someone you love says something that would normally send you through the roof, try saying these three words , "Tell me more." Yes, these three words are like magic. They can help you out more than any other combination of words other than,"I love you." Saying these three words gives you time to cool down, gives you more information to make a decision, and might possibly clarify what you do not understand at that time. So, take a deep breath, get your fear under control (remember fear is usually underneath anger) and simply say, "Tell me more."
Just sayin'
